It hit me after going to your soon-to-be middle school for parent night...time is not stopping. So I posted on FB: "parent info night at the middle school for rising 6th graders, 11th birthday around the corner...guess I better work faster on my time freeze machine."
Wouldn't that be cool?
Last Monday was a day off school. We all went out to lunch which I believe was our first lunch out together since summer. It was nice. We conversed about everything. I couldn't believe how much you could eat! You have become a bottomless pit and I love that you love everything. You are not a picky eater and will try anything.
During our lunch, a mom and her three kids caught my eye. I watched as she held one baby on her hip and used her other hand to maneuver her stroller. Her kids looked like their ages were spread out like mine. Me...seven years ago. Life was nice back then too but oh boy, I don't think I could go back to diapers, the corralling and cutting up food.
While freezing time would be a nice super power to have, then I would be missing out on what I'm experiencing today. I am loving how you and your siblings are growing up, especially you, my first born.
In spite of our daily battles, I can see the man you are becoming. You struggle with our rules and definitely test boundaries/push limits but that is part of life, part of growing up. You make me so proud how you handle things. Like when you were selected for the school geography bee and spelling bee. No way could I have handled those moments with the confidence you displayed.
I worry about the transition to middle school. Peer pressure, more independence, less leaning on your dad and I but this is your life. I pray everyday that you will "make good choices," it's also the last thing you hear from me when you walk out the door. So maybe it's burned on your brain.
You do well in school, you have good friends and you are making good choices (for the most part but I won't go there with your attire). You approach life with a quiet patience and calm attitude.
Eleven years ago today, I became a mom and my world changed...all for the better. I'm so proud and blessed to have you in my life.
I love you,
Mom
7 comments:
Love this, Jen. It really is so bittersweet. I agree with you that there is no way I would want to go backwards! I like how you summed him up because I think it was very honest. Each of us with kids, no matter the age but especially as they get older, recognize the battles and such for what they are. The maturing and the separation and the testing. Doesn't make it easier but then the good parts are so very good that it all evens out.
Your son is just as beautiful as can be.. a really striking young man. I think you are doing an amazing job as his Mom.
Beautiful post and awesome collage. Happy birthday to your oldest boy!
i wish we could freeze time too. Happy birthday to your big guy.
What a beautiful letter.
A treasure, really.
awww!
Middle school isn't that bad. I promise!
But the "make good choices" line is a good one... I may steal it :)
Happy belated birthday. I tried commenting on the day u pposted this but I'm having a tough time commenting on your blog fro my iPad. Not sure why. But it is working today!
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